I am a woman (25) and my boyfriend (25). We started dating recently. We like to practice pegging. We are new to this. Sometimes he likes to dress in feminine clothes, wear a wig, and I put makeup on him. For a while now he has been asking me to practice dirty talk with him, but I’ve always been quiet during sex because I’m ashamed of what to say, so I’ve always just moaned. Because he insisted so much, I started to say some things, but I feel limited. English is my second language, so I don’t know much of what to say. We’ve been practicing together for a while now, and I find it very exciting. I even started masturbating while saying these dirty things, but I speak in my own language. So I’m coming here to ask for tips on how to learn and what I can say to him. Even in our “vanilla” sex, he likes me to treat him like a trans girl with a small penis while he fucks me and I put my fingers in his ass until he cums. From what I’ve noticed, the conversations really help us get into the fantasy.
With a sissy fixation kink I’m assuming he likes degradation and being talked to as if he was a girl so call him a good/bad girl/any degrading terms like sissy, bitch, slut, slave, whore a few other ones is referring to his penis as a clitty/clit and his asshole as pussy/bussy/cunt and say how big and powerful your strappon is and compared how much bigger it is than his penis and stuff like that ig I’d suggest watching sissy degradation porn for reference
If you’re feeling like being in control, try describing what you’re going to do to your partner, or at least what’s going to happen. Tell them maybe if they’re a good girl you’ll make them feel like one by doing XYZ. Some like the idea of not using their penis anymore and having it locked away. Others like the implication of being pegged. And then what? Do it too much and they might just become addicted. Or maybe they’ve been a girl all along.
The point is, terms are boring without context. If he wants to feel like a girl, what are the steps to get there? Take a looooong time to describe the process. Anticipation is at the heart of desire.
If they like when you call them a girl during vanilla sex they might just be trans